The “If I Just Had More” Trap
“If I just had more leads…”
“If I just had more time…”
“If I just had more content…”
“If I just had more money to invest…”
Sound familiar?
It’s easy to believe the gap between where you are and where you want to be is all about more:
- More tools
- More followers
- More ideas
- More hours in the day
But if we paused and looked around your business right now, I’d bet we’d find:
- Unused ideas
- Half-finished projects
- Old content that could be revived
- Relationships that could be deepened
- Lessons you paid for in stress that never got fully cashed in
That’s where Mottainai comes in.
What Is Mottainai?
Mottainai (もったいない) is a Japanese term that expresses:
- Regret over waste
- Respect for resources
- The sense that something valuable is being thrown away or underused
It carries the spirit of:
“What a waste—this could have been used better.”
In a travel business, Mottainai is about:
- Seeing the value in what you already have
- Using it more fully
- Reducing unnecessary waste of time, energy, money, and ideas
It’s not about hoarding. It’s about honoring.
The Hidden Waste in Your Travel Business
Let’s get honest about where waste tends to hide.
1. Unused Content
You’ve probably created:
- Social posts
- Emails
- Webinars
- Presentations
- Proposals
…that you used once and then left to gather digital dust.
Mottainai says:
- “That story could be reshared.”
- “That email could become a blog post.”
- “That webinar could be sliced into multiple pieces of content.”
You don’t always need a new idea. You often need a new use for an old idea.
2. Underleveraged Relationships
You likely have:
- Past clients who loved working with you
- Supplier reps who think highly of you
- Peers who respect your work
But you might not be:
- Checking in with them regularly
- Asking for referrals or collaborations
- Inviting them into new offers or experiences
Mottainai asks:
“Who already knows, likes, and trusts me—and how could I honor that relationship more intentionally?”
3. Ignored Lessons
You’ve paid tuition in:
Every time something went wrong or sideways.
But if you never:
- Capture the lesson
- Change the process
- Update the boundary
…you’re likely to pay that tuition again.
Mottainai says:
“Don’t waste that pain. Turn it into wisdom.”
Mottainai in a Travel Business: Real Examples
Example 1: The One-and-Done Webinar
An advisor hosted a webinar on “How to Plan a Stress-Free Multigenerational Trip.”
It went well. People attended. A few leads came in. Then…
The recording sat on her hard drive.
Mottainai moment:
- She turned the webinar into:
- 3 blog posts
- 5 social posts
- A simple lead magnet (“Multigenerational Trip Planning Checklist”)
- An onboarding resource for new multi-gen clients
Same content. New uses. No extra hours of “creating from scratch.”
Example 2: The Ghosted Past Clients
Another advisor had a list of 200+ past clients.
She cared about them, but she:
- Didn’t email them regularly
- Didn’t ask for referrals
- Didn’t invite them into anything new
She was focused on “getting more leads” from strangers.
Mottainai moment:
- She created a simple quarterly “client love” email.
- She added a soft referral line: “If you know someone who needs this kind of support, feel free to forward this or introduce us.”
- She personally reached out to her top 20 favorite clients just to check in.
Referrals increased. Repeat bookings increased.
Not because she found new people, but because she honored the people she already had.
That’s how you become remarkable in your clients’ stories—someone they naturally talk about.
Practicing Mottainai as a Travel Entrepreneur
Here’s how to start living Mottainai in your business—without adding more to your plate.
1. Take Inventory of Your Hidden Assets
Set a timer for 20–30 minutes and list:
- Content you’ve created (blogs, emails, webinars, PDFs, presentations)
- Relationships (clients, partners, peers)
- Tools you’re paying for but not fully using
- Lessons from the last 1–2 years (what you’d warn your past self about)
Ask:
“What am I already sitting on that I’ve barely used?”
You’ll probably surprise yourself.
2. Choose One Category to “Harvest”
You don’t have to fix everything at once.
Pick one:
- Content
- Relationships
- Lessons
- Tools
Then ask:
“What’s one small way I could use this more fully this month?”
Examples:
- Turn an old email series into a blog post.
- Reach out to 5 past clients you loved.
- Document one lesson as a new policy or SOP.
- Learn one underused feature of a tool you already pay for.
3. Repurpose with Intention, Not Laziness
Mottainai isn’t “copy-paste everything everywhere.”
It’s:
- Respecting your audience enough to adapt content to the context.
- Respecting yourself enough not to reinvent the wheel every time.
For example:
- A story you told in a webinar can be:
- A shorter version in an email
- A quote graphic on social
- A deeper dive in a blog post
Same core idea. Different expressions.
4. Turn Lessons into Systems
Think of a hard moment from the last year:
- A client misunderstanding
- A process breakdown
- A stressful rush project
Ask:
- “What did this teach me?”
- “What can I put in place so this is less likely to happen again?”
Then:
- Update your intake form
- Add a step to your checklist
- Clarify a policy in writing
- Script one new line you’ll use in consults
That’s Mottainai: turning pain into prevention.
The Emotional Side of Mottainai
Sometimes we avoid using what we already have because:
- We’re bored with it
- We’re embarrassed by it (“That was my old work”)
- We’re chasing the high of the new thing
Mottainai invites you to:
- Respect your past efforts
- Honor the version of you who created that content, built that relationship, or survived that season
- Let your past work keep working for you
You don’t have to stay stuck in old expressions.
But you also don’t have to throw away everything that got you here.
You Don’t Need More to Be More
If you’ve been telling yourself:
“I’d be successful if I just had X,”
I want to gently challenge that:
You might already be holding a lot of what you need.
You are allowed to:
- Build deeper instead of always building wider
- Refine instead of constantly reinventing
- Reuse and repurpose without apologizing
You are a Phenomenal Force not because you have infinite resources, but because you learn to honor and multiply the ones you have.
That’s what makes you remarkable—worth talking about, worth referring, worth remembering.
Your Next Step with Mottainai
Take a breath and ask yourself:
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What’s one resource in my business I know I’m underusing right now?
- Content?
- Relationships?
- Tools?
- Lessons?
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What is one simple way I could use that resource more fully this week?
Maybe it’s:
- Reposting a story with a fresh angle
- Checking in with a past client you loved working with
- Finally turning a repeated email answer into a saved template
- Writing down one lesson as a new boundary or policy
Write it down. Do it. Let it count.
You don’t have to chase “more” to move forward.
You can start by honoring what’s already in your hands.
I’d love to hear from you:
What’s one thing you already have in your business—content, relationships, tools, or lessons—that you know you’re not fully using yet?
Drop it in the comments below, and tell me one way you’re going to put it to work. That’s Mottainai in action.