Last week we talked about that knot-in-your-stomach feeling that shows up right before you try something new. I shared my very shaky debut on a green mountain bike trail and how similar that felt to raising a fee, picking a niche, or finally sending that first broadcast email.
The point was simple: you are not broken for feeling fear. The goal is not to erase it. The goal is to get better at acting with fear riding quietly in the passenger seat.
This week, I want to get practical and give you something you can use right away in your business.
Here is a simple four-step framework I like for tackling what scares us.
1. Name the hill in front of you
Vague fear is undefeatable. Specific fear is negotiable.
Write down one sentence that starts with:
For example:
Most of us have at least one sentence like that running in the background. Bring it into the light.
2. Shrink the experiment
Once you have named the hill, turn it into a tiny experiment instead of a life sentence.
Think of the traveler who might be interested in something a little adventurous. You wouldn’t suggest a week in a remote hut with no plumbing. More likely, you would start them off with one soft adventure excursion on an otherwise comfortable itinerary.
Your experiment:
The rule: if the experiment makes you so anxious you keep avoiding it, it is too big. Shrink it until you actually do it!
3. Build a simple safety net
Fear usually shouts, "If this goes wrong, everything is ruined."
You can calm that voice by deciding in advance:
Examples:
Travelers feel better when they know there is a Plan B, and guess what? Advisors do too.
4. Decide your "one new thing" for the next 30 days
A theory is nice. A decision is better.
In the next 30 days, what is one new thing you will let yourself be nervous about and do anyway?
Make it small enough that you could start this week:
Write it down. Tell someone. If you want an extra layer of accountability, email it to me at jblock@worldvia.com. I read every note.
Why this matters more than you think
I want to zoom out for a second. You spend your days giving your clients courage.
First passport courage.
First cruise courage.
First "we are finally going to Europe without the kids" courage.
You are already in the business of helping people try something new, even when they are scared. This is just that same work, turned inward.
Every time you push through and ride a green trail in your business, you get a little less fragile and a little more free. The hill that terrified you six months ago becomes the warm-up loop. That mental muscle is worth more than any single tactic.
Because the truth is, the industry will keep changing. Technology will keep evolving. Traveler behavior will keep shifting. The advisors who thrive will not be the ones who never feel fear. They will be the ones who have learned to feel it, name it, shrink the experiment, and ride anyway.
One little hill at a time.