Somewhere along the way, many of us picked up this idea:
“Once my website is perfect, once my systems are perfect, once I am perfect…then I’ll really show up.”
So you wait.
Meanwhile, time passes. Competitors with “good enough” everything are out there being visible, learning, adjusting, and booking clients.
You’re not lazy. You’re not uncommitted.
You’re just stuck in a perfection trap.
That’s where Wabi Sabi comes in.
Wabi Sabi (侘寂) is a Japanese aesthetic and worldview that finds beauty in:
Wabi is the simple, rustic, humble side.
Sabi is the patina, the aging, the “this has lived a life” side.
Together, Wabi Sabi says:
“The cracks, the quirks, the not-quite-perfect parts—that’s where the soul lives.”
In a travel business, Wabi Sabi is the difference between:
Let’s clear something up:
Those are not the same thing.
Perfectionism says:
Wabi Sabi says:
Your clients are not hiring you because your Canva game is flawless.
They’re hiring you because you care, you’re competent, and you’re willing to stand with them when things get messy.
Alex had been “almost ready” to launch a new website for six months.
The copy was written. The photos were chosen. But he kept tweaking:
Meanwhile, his old site was confusing and outdated.
We talked about Wabi Sabi and made a deal:
“Launch the new site as it is. Give yourself permission to improve it in public for 90 days.”
He added a simple line to his footer:
“Always evolving. If you see something that could be clearer, tell me.”
He launched.
Guess what? No one emailed to say, “Your H2 on the Group Travel page is misaligned.” They just had an easier time understanding what he did and how to work with him. And as feedback came in, he made small improvements—Kaizen-style—on a live site that was already serving him.
Jenna wanted to do more video but hated how she looked and sounded on camera. She’d record, cringe, delete, repeat.
We tried a Wabi Sabi experiment:
It didn’t go viral. But:
Her “flaws” were exactly what made her feel trustworthy.
Think about the people you trust:
You don’t love them despite their imperfections. You love them because they’re real.
Your clients are the same.
They don’t need you to be:
They need you to be:
Wabi Sabi invites you to let your humanity be part of your brand.
Here are some practical ways to live Wabi Sabi, starting now.
Pick one thing you’ve been waiting to perfect:
Ask yourself:
“What would the 80% version look like—the one that’s good, honest, and safe for clients, even if it’s not my final vision?”
Launch that version.
You can always refine. You can’t improve something that doesn’t exist.
You don’t have to share your whole life. But you can:
The goal isn’t to overshare. It’s to let people see the human behind the brand.
If something isn’t perfect, you can:
For example:
When you name it, you control the story.
Try something like:
Write your rule somewhere you’ll see it.
Wabi Sabi is not an excuse to be sloppy.
You still:
The difference is this:
High standards + Wabi Sabi looks like:
If no one has given you permission yet, here it is:
You are allowed to be seen in progress.
You are allowed to:
You don’t become a Phenomenal Force by hiding until you’re flawless.
You become one by showing up, learning, and letting your growth be visible.
Before you move on, ask yourself:
Maybe it’s:
Pick one. Do it. Let it be a little crooked.
That crooked step might be the most honest, powerful move you make all month.
You are not a porcelain figurine that has to stay pristine.
You are a living, learning, evolving travel entrepreneur.
Let people see that.
I’d love to know:
What’s one thing you’ve been waiting to make “perfect” before you share it or launch it?
Drop it in the comments below—and, if you’re feeling brave, tell me the imperfect version you’re willing to move forward with this week. I’ll be cheering for your beautifully unfinished, wildly human progress.